The main reason of depression - excessive struggle with itself

The main reason of depression - excessive struggle with itself

В a modern society which it is possible to name with confidence “car of suppression of the person”, children are most often subject to psychological stresses and depression. Make the child rather happy happy parents can only. But the majority of Japanese are brought up taking into account rigid public frameworks, in the conditions of constant suppression of the desires, that as a result leads to self-respect loss.

The main reason of the depression getting recently more and more mass character also consists in it. Now, when people all less are ashamed, openly to recognise, that they experience complexities of psychological character, depression as though is born from a deep dark precipice. As data of spent recently governmental interrogation testify, in Japan each 15th person suffers a nervous breakdown and constantly is in a nervous tension. “I think, that with nervous system every fifth Japanese” has problems, - doctor-psychiatrist Kadzuo of Sakai who has spent one year ago similar interrogation speaks; data of this interrogation have been published last month by Ministry of Health, work and well-being.

Sakai is the director of the psychiatric clinic Hibija located in the Tokyo area Gindza. “The number of the people, suffering mental frustration, steadily grows. And the main reason consists that, as a rule, people cannot remove a nervous tension and splash out outside the anger collecting in their shower”, - he speaks. Doctor Rieko Siba, the director of psychiatric clinic Siba, considers, that Japanese are especially predisposed to depression from - diligent character. “The thinking and behaviour of Japanese are that, that allow them for excessively easy to run in a depression condition”, - underlines Сиба. 14 years it has spent in the United States where studied коморбидный a hyperactivity syndrome. Having returned to Japan, it began to specialise on treatment of it of others mental and diseases at children and women. “ Japanese are brought up in such a manner that at them the self-respect will atrophy, - continues depression. - For achievement of the purposes we establish so high lath that are compelled to struggle constantly that it to overcome and be kept at this level "." Struggle for the place in a society begins already at early age. Experiencing difficulties, children often run into deep depression. Besides, if parents are in a depression, children it strongly worry and feel unfortunate.
The negative psychological condition of the child often remains not noticed as from the earliest age of children accustom not to show outwardly the experiences ”, - explains Сиба.“ Depression - the most widespread disease in a modern society where on the first place in a scale of social values there are high scientific achievements, conformity of the person to the standard public standards and success of his career, - speaks Дзюнко Умихара, the director of psychiatric clinic in the Tokyo area Minato. - aspiring to look "good" everywhere and in everything, we test from the outside the strongest psychological pressure, even when we are at home ”. The Ministry of Public Education, cultures, sports, and technicians the beginning seriously to deal with of a science this problem of psychological stresses, especially now when it is established, that depression is the main reason of growth of suicides. The number of suicides for last five years has exceeded 30 thousand.
The ministry conducts supervision of 5 thousand children, worrying depression to generalise data and to establish the most typical reasons of this disease. As a rule, children running into depression, are in a direct environment of those who is in a similar condition. “Many children constantly are exposed to criticism from parents and teachers, - continues depression. - Adults“ adjust ”children, increase and without that heavy loading and demand, that children always and in all were the first. Thus parents put a large quantity of money and personal energy in training of children”. Some parents try to realise own unfortunate dreams through children. “Often parents aspire to identify children with themselves”, - speaks Умихара. “The child becomes as though“ continuation ”persons of the parent. It is compelled to suppress own desires and emotions and to arrive so that his parents were happy and happy”, - speaks depression.

She adds, that such children grow, not knowing, than they actually like to be engaged - they are entirely occupied by that please the parents. Special attention to children from parents is directly connected and with a problem of decrease in birth rate. “When in a family there are not enough children, parents usually demand and expect from them too many, - speaks Sakai. - besides, modern children incorrectly eat, and it is one more reason of that their mental faculties do not develop properly”.